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Thursday, September 29, 2005

Rules

The following were the "Rules" that hung on the kitchen cabinet for years. I don't know where my mother got them-but they are rules to follow....

Growing up Means

Giving up dependency wishes

Building frustration tolerance

Acquiring empathy

Internalizing self-discipline

Yielding gracefully

Giving up entitlement

Blending oneself in to a bigger unit.

Laughing at ones self

Enjoying process

Planning ahead

Keeping commitments

Believing in the Rules of the World

Rules of the World

The world is not fair.

Everybody has a boss.

Living involves hassle.

Nobody is entitled to anything.

True pride is self-respect and
must be earned, not gifted.

Being loved is only free for babies.
after that reciprocity is required.

Everybody goofs, a lot.

Everybody is laughable.

Staying Happy involves work